13: Dr. Rhoberta Shaler: The Life Purpose of a Relationship Healer

In this episode, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler discusses her very spiritual life path and her work as a relationship help doctor.
“Strong people get help. Weak people don’t… You have to have a good sense of self in order to reach out and say, ‘I need help.’ And not feel like you should ‘know what to do.’” – Rhoberta Shaler
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About Dr. Rhoberta Shaler

As The Relationship Help Doctor, Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, offers urgent and ongoing care for couples. Dr. Shaler calms the turbulence of troubled relationships and creates the insights, skills and space for new beginnings and positive re-connections. She offers the insights and pattern-breaking skills that lead to blame-free, game-free, non-manipulative relationships at home and at work. Dr. Shaler created The Optimize Center in Escondido, CA, and works with couples globally.
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Dr. Rhoberta Shaler’s Life Purpose

  • To use expertise to show people a better, more loving, happy way to be with one another
  • “To build sanctuaries for souls.”

Life Purpose Ah-Ha Moments

  • Watching parents’ relationship.
  • Working as musician and as speaker in early 20’s- showing people personal empowerment, creating “No limits” lifestyle.
  • Raising 3 children mostly on own.
  • Ministering in the “new thought” community.
  • Working in a school system.
  • All roles provided ways to make life better, for self and others.

Spiritual Belief

  • Follows in ideals of Joel Goldsmith, embracing Namaste, meaning “divine in me recognizes the divine in you”.
  • Viewing people in the likeness and image of God, enabling us to look at fellow beings and love them.

Recommended Personal Growth Resource or Practice

  • Quiet morning time.
  • Read Joel Goldsmith.
  • Meditate or silently contemplate.
  • Set an alarm every 2 hours to remind self to be conscious and centered for 90 seconds
  • Be in healthiest state possible- honor yourself!
  • Eat raw, even if it’s not 100% of the time.

Dr. Rhoberta Shaler’s Wisdom on Igniting Life Purpose and Personal Growth

  • “Give yourself permission to be who you are. Not who other people want you to be or expect you to be or think you should be.”

Interview Links and Special Offers from this Episode

  • Dr. Rhoberta Shaler’s Website
  • Bonus Offer: Take a free online relationship checklist here.

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